I heard something the other day that I didn't agree with. The person said, "There are times when I just don't know if I can make it." In my nearly 50 years of life, I have never thought that. Yes, life has been hard at times. I've been through trials and tests. I've had grief and trouble. But I have never thought, "I don't think I can make it." On my own strength, I
know I can't make it, but through the power of the Holy Ghost and the blood of Jesus, I've always know I CAN make it! I've had so many examples of victorious Christians, I know if they can, I can!
It all comes back to the
Battle of the Mind. What we think is what we will do and become. When we win that battle, everything else falls into place. Here are some other things I don't think:
All Men Cheat On the Wives - I heard this from a co-worker many years ago.
I don't think so! My parents were married for 40 years and my Dad didn't cheat on my Mom. We've been married for nearly 23 years and no cheating has taken place and I pray to God that it never does. I know it happens and I'm so sorry if it has happened to you. But it does not happen to everyone. I stay away from books, even Christian fiction, that the main storyline is that of an affair. I don't want to fill my mind with the hows and whys, that will just put doubts in my mind.
All Teenagers Go Through a Rebellious Stage - someone once told me "all college students experiment with drugs and alcohol."
I don't think so! I know many who have not. Not all teenagers are pushing at the "restraints" of godly living. Some are wise enough to know there is safety in staying with the ninety and nine. I never tried drugs or alcohol and I never wanted to! Les lived in a college dorm for four years and lived for God the entire time.
My Parents Divorced, so I'll Probably Get Divorced - a close friend told me this when we were teenagers.
I don't think so! The choices of our parents affect us, but we do not have to follow that same path. God created marriage and HE wants your marriage to last.
My Parents/Grandparents Had Cancer/Heart Disease/Fill In the Blank, So I Will Too -
I don't think so! For years we thought every disease was hereditary. Many are, but many studies show obesity as the cause. What we inherit is grandma's cookbook and grandpa's sweet tooth! We inherit habits and lifestyles. I may be diagnosed with some fatal disease next month, but it won't because I haven't taken care of myself. I'm not sitting in fear wondering when the ax is going to fall, I'm keeping my family's good habits and working hard to keep the bad ones in the past.
As An Apostolic Lady, I Can't Exercise/Be Active/Have Fun and Be Modest -
I don't think so! Mankind (and that includes ladies) has always been active. Ruth gleaned in the fields of Boaz and remained modest. I know ladies who hike, bike, golf, ride horses, run, and kayak and all of them remain modest!
In Matthew 19:26, Jesus said, "
With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible." When you think "I can't make it" what you are really thinking is "the blood of Jesus is not powerful enough to help me overcome this situation." Say it with me:
I don't think so!