Happy 100th day of the year! Time is flying as usual. I'm happy to report that I am still on track with my Bible reading. I'm working my way through Luke now and the story of Martha has been on my mind for several days.
Luke 10:38 Now it came to pass, as they went, that he entered into a certain village: and a certain woman named Martha received him into her house.
39 And she had a sister called Mary, which also sat at Jesus' feet, and heard his word.
40 But Martha was cumbered about much serving, and came to him, and said, Lord, dost thou not care that my sister hath left me to serve alone? bid her therefore that she help me.
41 And Jesus answered and said unto her, Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things:
42 But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.
I think Martha is often portrayed as the ugly older sister of the sitting-at-Jesus'-feet Mary. We hear her in a stern voice, glaring at her lazy sister. But I think this story is for our learning, as all others in the Bible. If that is the case, what can we learn?
First, what do we know about Martha? Martha was the owner of the house that Jesus visited, probably the oldest of the three siblings and possibly a widow. She felt the responsibility of guests that came through the door. Jesus loved her (John 11:5) - in fact Martha is named in that verse while Mary is not.
What happened on this particular day? Jesus came to Martha's house, with his followers. We don't know if that was just the 12 or a large multitude. We don't know how much warning Martha had. Did the little boy down the street coming running to her house, "Martha, Martha, Jesus is on His way!" Perhaps she received word 30 minutes prior to their arrival, but probably no more than that. Jesus did not have a home, He relied on the kindness of His friends to provide food and a place to sleep. Surely He was hungry when He arrived and would appreciate a good meal, right?
After reading a number of commentaries, the problem wasn't in Martha wanting to serve food. It was the amount and variety. A simple meal would have been sufficient, but it is thought that Martha prepared numerous meats and side dishes. She was for
much serving; plenty, variety, and exactness. If we look a little more closely at the punctuation of verses 41 and 42, it could have easily have said, "thou art careful and troubled about many things: but one thing is needful." One simple dish would have satisfied the hungry group and Martha could have rested at Jesus' feet as well.
So ladies, what can we do? I know I love to prepare a beautiful meal for company. I want things just so. The dishes, the table cloth, the food. But we can never exchange serving for loving. Pare down the menu so you can be present with your guests. Check your stress meter - are you in the red zone, ready to chew out the person who isn't helping because you are going so overboard you can't be helped? Will your guests enjoy their time with you more if you pulled something out of a crock-pot that required little work or that six course meal you've spent three days working on? If you're so exhausted you want to cry and your guests think they should probably head for the nearest exit, was it really worth it?
After studying and thinking about Martha, I really think she had a good heart. After the death of Lazarus, it was Martha who first went to Jesus. I re-read that story, without the stern voice, and found Martha to be a true believer. Twice she says, "I know" and once she says "I believe." This is not a woman only concerned with food. I think Martha was a great help in the early church. She knew who Jesus was and she knew how to get things done. I also think that she got her priorities straight and we present day Marthas can do the same.