Succeeding in running should be seen as an allegory for succeeding in every aspect of life. Set goals, plan out how to achieve them, then stick to the plan.
~ Kim Griffin, 1982 NCAA and U.S. 10,000m champion
There are People Everywhere!
The Honolulu Marathon is the fourth largest marathon in the US. Everyone starts at the same time with the same goal in mind - get the finish line. Some people are very focused. The elite runners at the front of the race aren't taking selfies. There's money on the line for them. Others have no plan to run a single step - they are going to walk the entire 26.2 miles. They're taking selfies every half mile! But the final goal is the same - get to the finish line.
Some People Are Only Focused On Themselves
One of my biggest challenges was ducking elbows. At just under 5'2" there were a lot of runners who were taller than me. Because the crowd was so large, there was a lot of weaving in and around slower runners. Many people only saw where they wanted to be, whether I was actually there or not. I had to protect myself from those kinds of runners.
There Are Friendly Runners
While everyone is focused on getting to the finish line, many still have smiles to share. Often it was an understanding smile as the rain poured or a small smile at our shared suffering. Just before the finish line I ran a little bit with a woman who was finishing her first marathon. We congratulated each other on making it to the end.
Not Everyone has Trained the Same
Because this marathon does not have a time cut off, there are many people who walk the entire race. I don't train with elites in Kenya. My experience is my own. It matters what I drink and eat. I need the right shoes for my size 5 feet. My marathon is only as good as the training I do. Ultimately, it's my responsibility to finish. This is my iPhone case:
The Camera Hog
I have no idea how many professional photographers were along the route. It seemed they were every 3-4 miles. Around mile 24, there was a volunteer yelling "photographer ahead - in the middle!" I just happened to be in the middle of the road and was prepared to give a great smile. Until a guy came from my left and ran right in front of me, completely blocking me! Some people crave the spotlight...
Thousands of Volunteers
There were 16 aid stations along the way. Thousands of people were out in the rain handing out water, sports drink, and first aid. They were amazing! They didn't get medals, but there they stood, for hours, just to help the runners. I made an effort to thank as many as I could.
Rain
It doesn't rain at every marathon, but it sure rained at this one! There wasn't a cloud following me with rain falling only on my path. We all faced the same elements. Rain, wind, hills, and more rain and wind! It truly rained on the just and the unjust that day!
It's the Little Things
With the rain came sogginess. My clothes were wet. My hair was wet. My shoes were wet. My socks were wet. It was those wet socks that started giving me trouble. I stopped at a medical aid tent around mile 16 to apply Vaseline to my toes. I ended up with just one tiny blister. It would have been much worse ten miles later if I had ignored that little bit of rubbing. Fix that little problem before it gets out of control!
Someone Else's Garbage
I saw a woman slip and go down hard. The culprit was the wrapper from a Power Gel. It was about 3 inches by 1 inch. Another runner had tossed it, and because of the rain that little piece of garbage became a hazard. It wasn't her fault, but down she went. Sometimes other people's garbage can make us stumble. Remember "The Law of the Garbage Truck"
One day I hopped in a taxi and we took off for the airport.
We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches! The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was really friendly. So I asked, ‘Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!’
This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call, ‘The Law of the Garbage Truck.’
He explained that many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it, and sometimes they’ll dump it on you. Don’t take it personally. Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. Don’t take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the streets.
The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their day.
Get to the Finish Line
There were 21,811 finishers. I was 8,479th. Thousands finished before me. Thousands finished after me. Over 100 people finished in the one minute that I did! But the JOY of crossing the finishing line! There is nothing like it. When I think of the marathon, it's always the finish line that brings the biggest smile. I had overcome every obstacle. I made it! There was a medal, a t-shirt, a banana, a malasada, and my one and only waiting for me.
"Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us."
Hebrews 12:1







