Showing posts with label grace. Show all posts
Showing posts with label grace. Show all posts

Thursday, March 7, 2024

Repost: The Woman at the Well

My Bible reading included John chapter 4 this morning.  I've always loved the story of the woman at the well.  The week before I studied her, I had studied Dinah, the daughter of Jacob.  These two women will always be connected in my mind because their stories take place in the same location.

Last week's woman had a sad ending, this week's is just the opposite.  I love the story of the Samaritan woman at the well, she's proof of God's grace and His power to change a life.  The commentaries on this story were so good!  I had a difficult time picking and choosing what to share, so here I am on Saturday afternoon trying to get this week's study typed!

Verses:  John 4:4-42
Background – parents, husband, children, siblings
We know nothing of her family except "thou hast had five husbands; and he whom thou now hast is not thy husband" (John 4:18.)  We'll talk about those husbands later, but an important thing to understand is who the Samaritans were.  According to Albert Barnes' Notes on the Bible, the Samaritans were:

This people was formerly composed of a few of the ten tribes and a mixture of foreigners. When the ten tribes were carried away into captivity to Babylon, the King of Assyria sent people from Cutha, Ava, Hamath, and Sepharvaim to inhabit their country.  The grounds of difference between the two nations were the following:
1. The Jews, after their return from Babylon, set about rebuilding their temple. The Samaritans offered to aid them. The Jews, however, perceiving that it was not from a love of true religion, but that they might obtain a part of the favors granted to the Jews by Cyrus, rejected their offer. The consequence was, that a stare of long and bitter animosity arose between them and the Jews.
2. While Nehemiah was engaged in building the walls of Jerusalem, the Samaritans used every art to thwart him in his undertaking.
3. The Samaritans at length obtained leave of the Persian monarch to build a temple for themselves. This was erected on “Mount Gerizim,” and they strenuously contended that that was the place designated by Moses as the place where the nation should worship. Sanballat, the leader of the Samaritans, constituted his son-in-law, Manasses, high priest. The religion of the Samaritans thus became perpetuated, and an irreconcilable hatred arose between them and the Jews.
4. Afterward Samaria became a place of resort for all the outlaws of Judea. They received willingly all the Jewish criminals and refugees from justice. The violators of the Jewish laws, and those who had been excommunicated, betook themselves for safety to Samaria, and greatly increased their numbers and the hatred which subsisted between the two nations. 
5. The Samaritans received only the five books of Moses, and rejected the writings of the prophets and all the Jewish traditions. From these causes arose an irreconcilable difference between them, so that the Jews regarded them as the worst of the human race, and had no dealings with them.
One final important note is the Samaritans acknowledged the five books of Moses, so they were also expecting the coming of the Messiah.

What is she most known for? Victories? Defeats? How can I be like her? How can I avoid being like her?
Jesus made a special stop just for this woman.  John Gill's Exposition of the Entire Bible said, "Her coming was not by chance, but by the providence of God, and agreeably to his purpose, who orders all things according to the counsel of his will; and it is an amazing instance of grace, that a woman, a Samaritan woman, a lewd and infamous one, should be a chosen vessel of salvation, should be the object of divine favour, and be effectually called by the grace of God; when so many wise, learned, and religious men in Judea, were passed by; and not only so, but she was the happy means of conveying the knowledge of the Saviour to many of her neighbours: she came, indeed."

When Jesus asked for a drink, she responded with a question, "How is it that thou, being a Jew, askest drink of me, which am a woman of Samaria?"  Some commentaries said she scoffed or was angry, others said she was curious or surprised.  I've always thought it was surprise or curiosity that had her questioning.  Though her lifestyle was sinful, she did not seem to be proud of it.

Synopsis of the Old and New Testaments by John Nelson Darby said, "The life of this woman was shameful; but she was ashamed of it; at the least her position had isolated her, by separating her from the crowd that forgets itself in the tumult of social life. And there is no inward grief like an isolated heart; but Christ and grace more than meets it.  What a meeting! And God who had stooped so low as to be dependent on her for a little water to quench His thirst!"

Such a conversation they had.  Jesus knew everything about her and she had no idea to Whom she was speaking.  All she could think about was actual water.  If she could have that water, she wouldn't have to come back to the well each day.  "Jesus saith unto her, Go, call thy husband, and come hither.  The woman answered and said, I have no husband. Jesus said unto her, Thou hast well said, I have no husband:  For thou hast had five husbands; and he whom thou now hast is not thy husband: in that saidst thou truly."  Matthew Henry’s Commentary on the Whole Bible said, "A severe reproof of her present state of life: He whom thou now hast is not thy husband. Either she was never married to him at all, or he had some other wife, or, which is most probable, her former husband or husbands were living: so that, in short, she lived in adultery. Yet observe how mildly Christ tells her of it; he doth not call her strumpet, but tells her, He with whom thou livest is not thy husband: and then leaves it to her own conscience to say the rest."  Her response was so simple, "Sir, I perceive that thou art a prophet." 

Did she reach a place when she needed to reset?  If so, did she?  For good or evil?
I can think of no greater example of someone resetting - an encounter with Jesus changed this woman from an adulteress to an evangelist!  

"A glorious revelation of Christ acts upon the soul where it is, and brings the Person of Jesus into connection with the need already felt. "The woman saith unto him, I know that Messias cometh; and when he is come, he will tell us all things." Small as her intelligence might be, and unable as she was to understand what Jesus had told her, His love meets her where she can receive blessing and life; and He replies, "I, that speak unto thee, am he." The work was done: the Lord was received. A poor Samaritan sinner receives the Messiah of Israel, whom the priests and the Pharisees had rejected from among the people. The moral effect upon the woman is evident. She forgets her waterpot, her toil, her circumstances. She is engrossed by this new object that is revealed to her soul — by Christ; so engrossed that, without thinking, she becomes a preacher; that is, she proclaims the Lord in the fulness of her heart and with perfect simplicity. He had told her all that she had ever done. She does not think at that moment of what it was. Jesus had told it her; and the thought of Jesus takes away the bitterness of the sin. The sense of His goodness removes the guile of heart that seeks to conceal its sin. In a word, her heart is entirely filled with Christ Himself. Many believed in Him through her declaration — "He has told me all that ever I did"; many more, when they had heard Him. His own word carried with it a stronger conviction, as more immediately connected with His Person." (John Nelson Darby)

We read of a revival in Samaria in Acts chapter 8.  Would Philip been effective there if Jesus hadn't been there first?  The people "with one accord gave heed unto those things which Philip spake," and "there was great joy in that city."  Men and women were baptized and received the Holy Ghost.  It didn't stop with a single city but the gospel was preached in many villages.  I believe this unnamed woman was one of them!

Sunday, January 8, 2023

That's a Promise!

I decided to go for a run before church this morning.  We are getting more rain this week so I'm taking advantage of any day that it isn't raining.  The sky started off colorful:



Right about the 2.5 mile mark I turned around to head home and saw this:


I followed the rainbow towards home for several minutes...



It slowly disappeared from sight:


Two miles later, I made the final turn on our street and was greeted by another rainbow!


Genesis chapter 9 tells us about the first rainbow:

12 And God said, This is the token of the covenant which I make between me and you and every living creature that is with you, for perpetual generations:

13 I do set my bow in the cloud, and it shall be for a token of a covenant between me and the earth.

14 And it shall come to pass, when I bring a cloud over the earth, that the bow shall be seen in the cloud:

15 And I will remember my covenant, which is between me and you and every living creature of all flesh; and the waters shall no more become a flood to destroy all flesh.

16 And the bow shall be in the cloud; and I will look upon it, that I may remember the everlasting covenant between God and every living creature of all flesh that is upon the earth.
 
I'm thankful for this beautiful (and colorful!) reminder of God's grace this morning!

Saturday, November 14, 2020

30 Days of Thanks, Day 14: Strong

I'm re-posting something I wrote in August.  The title of the post was "Strong."  I'm so thankful for my Mom's example of holding on, even when she didn't feel strong.
 
Pastor White recommended a couple of books during last Wednesday night's Bible study.  He taught about "Persecution and the People of God."  (You can listen to Part 1 and 2 here.)  The books he recommended were "Fox's Book of Martyrs" and "The Way Called Heresy."  We have both of these books but I have not been able to located "The Way Called Heresy."  
 
During my searching, I stumbled upon a book that belonged to my Mom.  It is a journal that was given to her on her 54th birthday - January 1, 1994.  All the staff from Truth Tabernacle Christian School signed it.  She was going to be off work for a few weeks because she was having knee surgery.
 
My memories of 1994 are tough.  The Northridge Earthquake happened on January 17th.  Rod's declining health and his passing on June 22nd.  Mom's cancer returned later that summer.
 
Mom's writing in this particular journal are more raw than anything else of hers that I have.  At times she wrote words of encouragement, but then she wrote how she was feeling:
 
January 6
Sometimes the Lord calms the storm; sometimes He lets the storm rage and calms His child.
I don't feel calm today.
 
January 7
I survived the surgery.  PAIN  PAIN  PAIN  PAIN all day, all night.
 
January 8
Everything seems better in the daylight.  I feel tough again :)
 
Mother's Day weekend - went to Kathy and Les'... had a great time.
Mother's Day banquet very nice, church on Sunday A.M just for me.

June 22
I can barely read, much less type, all that she wrote on that day.  She spent the day with Rod until an ambulance came around 1:30, two hours later: "Rod is at home with the Lord.  My heart is bleeding."

Two days later she wrote about his funeral, "absolutely beautiful...  I feel the peace that passeth understanding, I know Rod is safe at home with Jesus."

The next two entries are not dated:
People say I'm strong but I don't feel strong.
 
Summer has been a blur: times of happiness with the grandkids but all tinged with my deep hurt.

I remember that summer well.  One of the things I remember the most is seeing Mom and Dad for the first time after Rod's funeral.  It seemed like they had aged a decade in about a month's time.  The blur that was the summer of 1994 didn't get better...

August 20
Time for yearly chest x-ray.

August 23
Call from nurse Lynette, changes since last year.

August 24
CAT scan

August 25
Call from Dr. Medrano

Cancer

I really don't feel strong now, but God is still in control.

August 26
Start chemo

September 7, 8, 9
Helped out at T.T.C.S.  I didn't know how much I would miss it...

That was the final entry.  Her cancer battle went on another four years.  Highs and lows, joys and sorrows.  The one thing that stood out to me was what she wrote twice, "I don't feel strong."

2 Corinthians 12:9-10 says, "And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.   Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong."

David Guzik's Enduring Word Commentary says:
What triumph! What can the world do to such a man so firm in the grip of Jesus? God did not allow this thorn in the flesh to punish Paul, or to keep him weak for the sake of weakness. God allowed it to show a divine strength in Paul.
Think about this man Paul. Was he a weak man or a strong man? The man who traveled around the ancient world spreading the gospel of Jesus despite the fiercest persecutions, who endured shipwrecks and imprisonment, who preached to kings and slaves, who established strong churches and trained up their leaders was not a weak man. In light of his life and accomplishments, we would say that Paul was a very strong man. But he was only strong because he knew his weaknesses, and looked outside of himself for the strength of God’s grace. If we are going to live lives of such strength, we also must understand and admit our weaknesses, and look to God alone for the favor, approval and work of grace that will strengthen us for any task. It was the grace-filled Paul who said, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13)
 
Albert Barnes' Notes on the Bible says:
When I feel weak; when I am subjected to trial, and nature faints and fails, then strength is imparted to me, and I am enabled to bear all. The more I am borne down with trials, the more do I feel my need of divine assistance, and the more do I feel the efficacy of divine grace. Such was the promise in Deuteronomy 33:25; “As thy days, so shall thy strength be.” So in Hebrews 11:24; “Who out of weakness were made strong.” What Christian has not experienced this, and been able to say that when he felt himself weak and felt like sinking under the accumulation of many trials, he has found his strength according to his day, and felt an arm of power supporting him? It is then that the Redeemer manifests himself in a special manner; and then that the excellency of the religion of Christ is truly seen and its power appreciated and felt.

Matthew Henry's Commentary on the Whole Bible says:
This is a Christian paradox: when we are weak in ourselves, then we are strong in the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ; when we see ourselves weak in ourselves, then we go out of ourselves to Christ, and are qualified to receive strength from him, and experience most of the supplies of divine strength and grace.

We don't always feel strong, but I think that's the way it should be.  When we feel strong because of our own strength, we are actually weak, and we're setting ourselves up for failure.  But when we find our strength in Jesus, when we are weak, His grace is sufficient and His strength is made perfect in our weakness.

Wednesday, August 26, 2020

Strong

Pastor White recommended a couple of books during last Wednesday night's Bible study.  He taught about "Persecution and the People of God."  (You can listen to Part 1 and 2 here.)  The books he recommended were "Fox's Book of Martyrs" and "The Way Called Heresy."  We have both of these books but I have not been able to located "The Way Called Heresy."  
 
During my searching, I stumbled upon a book that belonged to my Mom.  It is a journal that was given to her on her 54th birthday - January 1, 1994.  All the staff from Truth Tabernacle Christian School signed it.  She was going to be off work for a few weeks because she was having knee surgery.
 
My memories of 1994 are tough.  The Northridge Earthquake happened on January 17th.  Rod's declining health and his passing on June 22nd.  Mom's cancer returned later that summer.
 
Mom's writing in this particular journal are more raw than anything else of hers that I have.  At times she wrote words of encouragement, but then she wrote how she was feeling:
 
January 6
Sometimes the Lord calms the storm; sometimes He lets the storm rage and calms His child.
I don't feel calm today.
 
January 7
I survived the surgery.  PAIN  PAIN  PAIN  PAIN all day, all night.
 
January 8
Everything seems better in the daylight.  I feel tough again :)
 
Mother's Day weekend - went to Kathy and Les'... had a great time.
Mother's Day banquet very nice, church on Sunday A.M just for me.

June 22
I can barely read, much less type, all that she wrote on that day.  She spent the day with Rod until an ambulance came around 1:30, two hours later: "Rod is at home with the Lord.  My heart is bleeding."

Two days later she wrote about his funeral, "absolutely beautiful...  I feel the peace that passeth understanding, I know Rod is safe at home with Jesus."

The next two entries are not dated:
People say I'm strong but I don't feel strong.
 
Summer has been a blur: times of happiness with the grandkids but all tinged with my deep hurt.

I remember that summer well.  One of the things I remember the most is seeing Mom and Dad for the first time after Rod's funeral.  It seemed like they had aged a decade in about a month's time.  The blur that was the summer of 1994 didn't get better...

August 20
Time for yearly chest x-ray.

August 23
Call from nurse Lynette, changes since last year.

August 24
CAT scan

August 25
Call from Dr. Medrano

Cancer

I really don't feel strong now, but God is still in control.

August 26
Start chemo

September 7, 8, 9
Helped out at T.T.C.S.  I didn't know how much I would miss it...

That was the final entry.  Her cancer battle went on another four years.  Highs and lows, joys and sorrows.  The one thing that stood out to me was what she wrote twice, "I don't feel strong."

2 Corinthians 12:9-10 says, "And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.   Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong."

David Guzik's Enduring Word Commentary says:
What triumph! What can the world do to such a man so firm in the grip of Jesus? God did not allow this thorn in the flesh to punish Paul, or to keep him weak for the sake of weakness. God allowed it to show a divine strength in Paul.
Think about this man Paul. Was he a weak man or a strong man? The man who traveled around the ancient world spreading the gospel of Jesus despite the fiercest persecutions, who endured shipwrecks and imprisonment, who preached to kings and slaves, who established strong churches and trained up their leaders was not a weak man. In light of his life and accomplishments, we would say that Paul was a very strong man. But he was only strong because he knew his weaknesses, and looked outside of himself for the strength of God’s grace. If we are going to live lives of such strength, we also must understand and admit our weaknesses, and look to God alone for the favor, approval and work of grace that will strengthen us for any task. It was the grace-filled Paul who said, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13)
 
Albert Barnes' Notes on the Bible says:
When I feel weak; when I am subjected to trial, and nature faints and fails, then strength is imparted to me, and I am enabled to bear all. The more I am borne down with trials, the more do I feel my need of divine assistance, and the more do I feel the efficacy of divine grace. Such was the promise in Deuteronomy 33:25; “As thy days, so shall thy strength be.” So in Hebrews 11:24; “Who out of weakness were made strong.” What Christian has not experienced this, and been able to say that when he felt himself weak and felt like sinking under the accumulation of many trials, he has found his strength according to his day, and felt an arm of power supporting him? It is then that the Redeemer manifests himself in a special manner; and then that the excellency of the religion of Christ is truly seen and its power appreciated and felt.

Matthew Henry's Commentary on the Whole Bible says:
This is a Christian paradox: when we are weak in ourselves, then we are strong in the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ; when we see ourselves weak in ourselves, then we go out of ourselves to Christ, and are qualified to receive strength from him, and experience most of the supplies of divine strength and grace.

We don't always feel strong, but I think that's the way it should be.  When we feel strong because of our own strength, we are actually weak, and we're setting ourselves up for failure.  But when we find our strength in Jesus, when we are weak, His grace is sufficient and His strength is made perfect in our weakness.

Wednesday, February 20, 2019

Repost: Shame, Shame, Shame

I stumbled on this old post this morning and wanted to repost it.  I've talked to several young mothers recently, moms living in that stage of constant chaos, just trying to keep their little ones fed and clothed.  Don't worry about that perfect life.  Live with love and the rest will take care of itself.

Through the years I have purchased the Sisterchicks series by Robin Jones Gunn. "Sisterchicks on the Loose," "Sisterchicks in Sombreros," "Sisterchicks do the Hula" and many others. They are fun reading, but usually have a little more to them than you would expect at first glance. The definition of a Sisterchick is : n.: a friend who shares the deepest wonders of your heart, loves you like a sister, and provides a reality check when you’re being a brat.


With our upcoming trip, I decided to reread "Sisterchicks in Gondolas." This book is about two sisters-in-law on a trip to Venice. I won't spoil it for you if you want to read it, but here's what the back cover says:
Jenna and Sue have been sisters-in-law for nearly thirty years but inseparable friends for only the last five. When Jenna is invited to a week’s stay at a fifteenth century restored palace on a quiet canal in Venice, Sue is her travel companion of choice. The catch? They must cook for a group that is staying at the palace for a retreat. It’s the first time Sue has been this far from home, and both women are coming out of a valley season of life where they operated each day in long shadows of fear. Entering into the lilting gondola-paced Italian lifestyle and discovering corners of Venice most tourists never see, they welcome a new time of refreshing. And over boiling pots of pasta, they dare each other to dream again.
During one heartfelt conversation, Sue apologizes to Jenna and Jenna utters three simple but profound words, "Shame OFF you."

I think women, especially moms, need that message. We can be so hard on ourselves. If our house isn't spotless, with magazine perfect meals on the table, not a single speck of dust in sight, we start feeling like failures. I've read blogs by young mothers who confess to all the things they aren't perfect at. I want to say, "Shame off you."

I'm not talking about being lazy and sitting around eating chocolate covered cherries all day while your children run around like hooligans and your husband searches for clean socks. I'm talking about the times when LIFE happens. A sick child takes precedence over a clean kitchen - I can't tell you how many times Mom stopped whatever she was doing to take care of Rod. A single phone call can change the course of your week. When you rush out the door to the hospital or funeral home, no one is looking under the bed for dust bunnies.

So the next time you're beating yourself up because of your shortcomings, take a lesson from Sue and Jenna. Later in the book, the phrase is repeated with another, "Shame off you and Grace on you." Extend the same grace to yourself that you willingly extend to others.

Monday, January 29, 2018

Repost: I Deserve It!

I was searching my blog for something yesterday and found this post.  It was originally posted on August 7, 2014, but I felt it needed to be posted again. 


Les and I had a wonderful conversation last night with Jose and Maylee Munoz.  They are teaching their first home Bible study and had some questions.  We taught them a home Bible study a few years ago and it is great to see them stepping out.  One of the questions their students had was about how "unfair" it is that we as humanity have to suffer for Adam and Eve's sin.  Of course we really aren't suffering for their sin - we suffer for our own sins.  Adam and Eve were the first sinners, but there has only been One born Who had no sin.

On the way home Les and I were talking about how our world has made us think we "deserve" better things.  It is the job of every advertiser to make you feel unhappy.  If you're unhappy with your car, home, clothes, face, or body, you'll buy their stuff!


I've seen several blogs that posted "Pictures that Make Me Feel Beautiful."  Why beautiful?  Why not pictures that bring me joy or remind me of one of the greatest days of my life?  Because we're convinced if we look beautiful then we deserve compliments.  If we don't live up to today's standard of beauty we aren't deserving of good things.

None of us get what we deserve.  We might work hard and be able to enjoy nice things.  But we don't deserve them.
Several years ago I read "Demon: A Memoir" by Tosca Lee.  The one thing that really stuck with me is just how merciful God is to humanity.  One third of the demons rebelled one time and that was it.  There was no repentance, no forgiveness, no grace for them.  We don't get what we deserve.  Our rebellious ways, our unforgiving spirits, our hateful tongues deserve eternal damnation and separation from our Creator. But God shows us mercy over and over and over.

The word deserve is found one time in the Bible, Ezra 9:13.  The entire chapter shows us what Israel has done, what they deserve, and what God gave them:
6 And said, O my God, I am ashamed and blush to lift up my face to thee, my God: for our iniquities are increased over our head, and our trespass is grown up unto the heavens.  7 Since the days of our fathers have we been in a great trespass unto this day; and for our iniquities have we, our kings, and our priests, been delivered into the hand of the kings of the lands, to the sword, to captivity, and to a spoil, and to confusion of face, as it is this day. 8 And now for a little space grace hath been shewed from the Lord our God, to leave us a remnant to escape, and to give us a nail in his holy place, that our God may lighten our eyes, and give us a little reviving in our bondage. 9 For we were bondmen; yet our God hath not forsaken us in our bondage, but hath extended mercy unto us in the sight of the kings of Persia, to give us a reviving, to set up the house of our God, and to repair the desolations thereof, and to give us a wall in Judah and in Jerusalem. 10 And now, O our God, what shall we say after this? for we have forsaken thy commandments, 11 Which thou hast commanded by thy servants the prophets, saying, The land, unto which ye go to possess it, is an unclean land with the filthiness of the people of the lands, with their abominations, which have filled it from one end to another with their uncleanness. 12 Now therefore give not your daughters unto their sons, neither take their daughters unto your sons, nor seek their peace or their wealth for ever: that ye may be strong, and eat the good of the land, and leave it for an inheritance to your children for ever. 13 And after all that is come upon us for our evil deeds, and for our great trespass, seeing that thou our God hast punished us less than our iniquities deserve, and hast given us such deliverance as this; 14 Should we again break thy commandments, and join in affinity with the people of these abominations? wouldest not thou be angry with us till thou hadst consumed us, so that there should be no remnant nor escaping? 15 O Lord God of Israel, thou art righteous: for we remain yet escaped, as it is this day: behold, we are before thee in our trespasses: for we cannot stand before thee because of this.

I'm thankful that God has punished me less than my iniquities deserve.  I pray I never get what I deserve.

Thursday, August 7, 2014

I Deserve It!


Les and I had a wonderful conversation last night with Jose and Maylee Munoz.  They are teaching their first home Bible study and had some questions.  We taught them a home Bible study a few years ago and it is great to see them stepping out.  One of the questions their students had was about how "unfair" it is that we as humanity have to suffer for Adam and Eve's sin.  Of course we really aren't suffering for their sin - we suffer for our own sins.  Adam and Eve were the first sinners, but there has only been One born Who had no sin.

On the way home Les and I were talking about how our world has made us think we "deserve" better things.  It is the job of every advertiser to make you feel unhappy.  If you're unhappy with your car, home, clothes, face, or body, you'll buy their stuff!


I've seen several blogs that posted "Pictures that Make Me Feel Beautiful."  Why beautiful?  Why not pictures that bring me joy or remind me of one of the greatest days of my life?  Because we're convinced if we look beautiful then we deserve compliments.  If we don't live up to today's standard of beauty we aren't deserving of good things.

None of us get what we deserve.  We might work hard and be able to enjoy nice things.  But we don't deserve them. 
Several years ago I read "Demon: A Memoir" by Tosca Lee.  The one thing that really stuck with me is just how merciful God is to humanity.  One third of the demons rebelled one time and that was it.  There was no repentance, no forgiveness, no grace for them.  We don't get what we deserve.  Our rebellious ways, our unforgiving spirits, our hateful tongues deserve eternal damnation and separation from our Creator. But God shows us mercy over and over and over.

The word deserve is found one time in the Bible, Ezra 9:13.  The entire chapter shows us what Israel has done, what they deserve, and what God gave them:
6 And said, O my God, I am ashamed and blush to lift up my face to thee, my God: for our iniquities are increased over our head, and our trespass is grown up unto the heavens.
7 Since the days of our fathers have we been in a great trespass unto this day; and for our iniquities have we, our kings, and our priests, been delivered into the hand of the kings of the lands, to the sword, to captivity, and to a spoil, and to confusion of face, as it is this day.
8 And now for a little space grace hath been shewed from the Lord our God, to leave us a remnant to escape, and to give us a nail in his holy place, that our God may lighten our eyes, and give us a little reviving in our bondage.
9 For we were bondmen; yet our God hath not forsaken us in our bondage, but hath extended mercy unto us in the sight of the kings of Persia, to give us a reviving, to set up the house of our God, and to repair the desolations thereof, and to give us a wall in Judah and in Jerusalem. 10 And now, O our God, what shall we say after this? for we have forsaken thy commandments,
11 Which thou hast commanded by thy servants the prophets, saying, The land, unto which ye go to possess it, is an unclean land with the filthiness of the people of the lands, with their abominations, which have filled it from one end to another with their uncleanness.
12 Now therefore give not your daughters unto their sons, neither take their daughters unto your sons, nor seek their peace or their wealth for ever: that ye may be strong, and eat the good of the land, and leave it for an inheritance to your children for ever.
13 And after all that is come upon us for our evil deeds, and for our great trespass, seeing that thou our God hast punished us less than our iniquities deserve, and hast given us such deliverance as this;
14 Should we again break thy commandments, and join in affinity with the people of these abominations? wouldest not thou be angry with us till thou hadst consumed us, so that there should be no remnant nor escaping?
15 O Lord God of Israel, thou art righteous: for we remain yet escaped, as it is this day: behold, we are before thee in our trespasses: for we cannot stand before thee because of this.

I'm thankful that God has punished me less than my iniquities deserve.  I pray I never get what I deserve.

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Shame, Shame, Shame

Through the years I have purchased the Sisterchicks series by Robin Jones Gunn. "Sisterchicks on the Loose," "Sisterchicks in Sombreros," "Sisterchicks do the Hula" and many others. They are fun reading, but usually have a little more to them than you would expect at first glance. The definition of a Sisterchick is : n.: a friend who shares the deepest wonders of your heart, loves you like a sister, and provides a reality check when you’re being a brat.


With our upcoming trip, I decided to reread "Sisterchicks in Gondolas." This book is about two sisters-in-law on a trip to Venice. I won't spoil it for you if you want to read it, but here's what the back cover says:
Jenna and Sue have been sisters-in-law for nearly thirty years but inseparable friends for only the last five. When Jenna is invited to a week’s stay at a fifteenth century restored palace on a quiet canal in Venice , Sue is her travel companion of choice. The catch? They must cook for a group that is staying at the palace for a retreat. It’s the first time Sue has been this far from home, and both women are coming out of a valley season of life where they operated each day in long shadows of fear. Entering into the lilting gondola-paced Italian lifestyle and discovering corners of Venice most tourists never see, they welcome a new time of refreshing. And over boiling pots of pasta, they dare each other to dream again.
During one heartfelt conversation, Sue apologizes to Jenna and Jenna utters three simple but profound words, "Shame OFF you."

I think women, especially moms, need that message. We can be so hard on ourselves. If our house isn't spotless, with magazine perfect meals on the table, not a single speck of dust in sight, we start feeling like failures. I've read blogs by young mothers who confess to all the things they aren't perfect at. I want to say, "Shame off you."

I'm not talking about being lazy and sitting around eating chocolate covered cherries all day while your children run around like hooligans and your husband searches for clean socks. I'm talking about the times when LIFE happens. A sick child takes precedence over a clean kitchen - I can't tell you how many times Mom stopped whatever she was doing to take care of Rod. A single phone call can change the course of your week. When you rush out the door to the hospital or funeral home, no one is looking under the bed for dust bunnies.

So the next time you're beating yourself up because of your shortcomings, take a lesson from Sue and Jenna. Later in the book, the phrase is repeated with another, "Shame off you and Grace on you." Extend the same grace to yourself that you willingly extend to others.

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Our Value in God's Eyes


Sunday night's service reminded me of a message that Pastor White preached a couple years ago. He talked about our value in the eyes of God. He gave an example of a $100 bill.

When the bill is new and crisp, its value is $100.


If the bill gets crumpled, its value is $100.



If the bill gets stepped on or torn, its value is $100.


And that's how God views us. No matter what turns our lives take, our value is the same.

When we're a newborn child, our value is the same.

When we're broken and used up, our value is the same.

Whether we've strayed far from home or stayed nestled in His arms, our value is the same.

Jeremiah 31:3 "Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee."

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