Showing posts with label serving. Show all posts
Showing posts with label serving. Show all posts

Friday, March 20, 2015

Martha ~ Woman of the Week

I'm a bit of a Martha champion.  Last year I wrote about how one chapter did not make up her entire life, but we've all heard sermons about not being a Martha. There is a book and an entire study called "Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World."  I haven't read the book, but the title hurts my Martha loving heart.  Just because someone is busy serving the kingdom, doesn't mean that person loves the Lord less.  I would say that anyone who stays busy serving for a long time would not do so if they didn't truly love the Lord.  Martha was so much more than a complaining sister.  And a hint for next week - I've learned a lot about her sister, Mary, while I've been studying!

Verses:  Luke 10:38-42, John 11:1-44, John 12:1-2
I turned to our chronological Bible to read these verses in order.

Background – parents, husband, children, siblings
We don't know anything about Martha's parents.  We know she had one sister, Mary, and one brother, Lazarus.  Some commentaries said she might have been a widow because Luke 10:38 says when Jesus visited "a certain woman named Martha received him into her house." 

What is she most known for? Victories? Defeats? How can I be like her? How can I avoid being like her?
As I already mentioned, poor Martha is known for being cumbered about with much serving.  The problem was not that she was serving, but much serving. "Martha was providing for the entertainment of Christ, and those that came with him. Here were respect to our Lord Jesus and right care of her household affairs. But there was something to be blamed. She was for much serving; plenty, variety, and exactness. Worldly business is a snare to us, when it hinders us from serving God, and getting good to our souls. What needless time is wasted, and expense often laid out, even in entertaining professors of the gospel! Though Martha was on this occasion faulty, yet she was a true believer, and in her general conduct did not neglect the one thing needful. The favor of God is needful to our happiness; the salvation of Christ is needful to our safety. Where this is attended to, all other things will be rightly pursued."  (Matthew Henry's Concise Commentary on the Whole Bible)

Martha probably could have quietly continued with her much serving, but when she stopped to complain, she really got Jesus' attention.  "It should be said here that there is no evidence that Martha had a worldly or covetous disposition. Her anxiety was to provide suitable entertainment for the Lord Jesus. As mistress of the family, this care properly devolved on her; and the only fault which can be charged on her was too earnest a desire to make such entertainment, when she might have sat with Mary at his feet, and, perhaps, too much haste and fretfulness in speaking to Jesus about Mary.  This was an improper reproof of our Lord, as if “he” encouraged Mary in neglecting her duty. Or perhaps Martha supposed that Mary was sitting there to show him the proper expressions of courtesy and kindness, and that she would not think it proper to leave him without his direction and permission. She therefore “hinted” to Jesus her busy employments, her need of the aid of her sister, and requested that he would signify his wish that Mary should assist her." (Albert Barnes' Notes on the Bible)

I think it's important to notice that Martha does not speak again after Jesus reproves her.  She didn't try to defend or excuse her behavior.  She didn't storm from the house or leave servants to take over.

The next time we read about Martha is in John chapter 11 when Lazarus is sick.  Verse 3 says, "Therefore his sisters sent unto him, saying, Lord, behold, he whom thou lovest is sick."  Verse 5 says, "Now Jesus loved Martha, and her sister, and Lazarus."  There is no mention that Martha is the one who was cumbered with much serving, she was one that Jesus loved.  The previous event seems to have been forgiven and forgotten in this long term friendship.

Verse 11 says, "Then Martha, as soon as she heard that Jesus was coming, went and met him..." which was "true to the energy and activity of her character." (A Commentary on the Old and New Testaments by Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset and David Brown)   Matthew Henry said, "Here was a house where the fear of God was, and on which his blessing rested; yet it was made a house of mourning. Grace will keep sorrow from the heart, but not from the house. When God, by his grace and providence, is coming towards us in ways of mercy and comfort, we should, like Martha, go forth by faith, hope, and prayer, to meet him."

Verses 21-27 record Martha and Jesus speaking.  I've heard some criticize Martha for saying, "Lord, if thou hadst been here, my brother had not died." but those exact same words are spoken by Mary in verse 32.  I think they came from the lips of two heartbroken sisters.  "As Mary afterwards said the same thing, it is plain they had made this very natural remark to each other, perhaps many times during these four sad days, and not without having their confidence in His love at times overclouded. Such trials of faith, however, are not peculiar to them." (JFB)

Martha then goes on... "But I know, that even now, whatsoever thou wilt ask of God, God will give it thee."  John Gill's Exposition of the Entire Bible says "whether Martha had such a clear notion of the deity of Christ, as yet, as she afterwards had, is not so certain: however, she was persuaded that he had great interest with God, and that whatever he desired of him was granted to him; and though she does not mention the resurrection of her brother, yet it seems to be what she had in view."

What Martha truly believes is found in verse 27, "Yea, Lord: I believe that thou art the Christ, the Son of God, which should come into the world."  Word Pictures in the New Testament by Archibald Thomas Robertson says, "Martha probably did not understand all that Jesus said and meant, but she did believe in the future resurrection, in eternal life for believers in Christ, in the power of Christ to raise even the dead here and now. She had heroic faith and makes now her own confession of faith in words that outrank those of Peter in Matthew 16:16 because she makes hers with her brother dead now four days and with the hope that Jesus will raise him up now.   "It is my settled and firm faith."  The Messiah or the Christ (John 1:41) was to be also “the Son of God” as the Baptist said he had found Jesus to be (John 1:34), as Peter confessed on Hermon for the apostles (Matthew 16:16), as Jesus claimed to be (John 11:41) and confessed on oath before Caiaphas that he was (Matthew 26:63.), and as John stated that it was his purpose to prove in his Gospel (John 20:31). But no one said it under more trying circumstances than Martha."

The practical Martha steps in one more time when Jesus says to roll the stone away, "Lord, by this time he stinketh."  John Gill's Exposition of the Entire Bible says "whether she said this out of respect to her brother, being unwilling he should be exposed to the view of persons, in such a state of corruption, she knew he must now be; or whether out of respect to Christ, lest he should be disordered with the offensive smell, is not certain: however, it seems as if she had no notion that Christ was about to raise her brother from the dead; and that the stone was commanded to be removed for that purpose, not merely for a sight of the dead, but that the dead might be seen to come forth alive:"

"It is wrong to suppose from this that, like the by-standers, she had not thought of his restoration to life. But the glimmerings of hope which she cherished from the first (John 11:22), and which had been brightened by what Jesus said to her (John 11:23-27), had suffered a momentary eclipse on the proposal to expose the now sightless corpse. To such fluctuations all real faith is subject in dark hours." (JFB)

Did she reach a place when she needed to reset?  If so, did she?  For good or evil?
I believe Martha took Jesus' words of reproof to heart.   We find her in John chapter 12 once again serving.  John Gill's Exposition of the Entire Bible says, "And Martha served; who was always a busy, active, and stirring woman; and this she did, to testify her love to Christ, and great respect for him; otherwise, as she was a person of substance, she had servants enough to wait at table:"

I love how Matthew Henry explained it, "Martha served; she herself waited at table, in token of her great respect to the Master. Though a person of some quality, she did not think it below her to serve, when Christ sat at meat; nor should we think it a dishonor or disparagement to us to stoop to any service whereby Christ may be honored. Christ had formerly reproved Martha for being troubled with much serving. But she did not therefore leave off serving, as some, who, when they are reproved for one extreme, peevishly run into another; no, still she served; not as then at a distance, but within hearing of Christ's gracious words."

We hear about having a "servant's heart" and Martha is a great example of that.  She was a firm believer, she saw Jesus perform great and mighty miracles.  Other than the one time mentioned, I believe she found great joy in serving, she found a way to incorporate her love for Jesus with her love for serving.


*Note:  I have added a new page to my blog - "Women of the Word" - where I am collecting each week's study.  You can find it near the top of the blog, just below the large picture.

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

A Chapter or Two

I read the story of Lazarus' death and resurrection yesterday morning as found in John chapter 11.  I was reminded again of the other side of Martha.  She was a woman of faith.

We rejoice when we hear Matthew 16:16, "And Simon Peter answered and said, Thou art the Christ, the Son of the living God."  Whew!  That Simon Peter, what a great revelation he had!  Martha used that very same phrase in John 11:27, "Yea, Lord: I believe that thou art the Christ, the Son of God, which should come into the world."  These words are spoken in the New Testament by Peter, demons as they were being cast out, and Martha.  Give the girl the keys to the kingdom!

I know I blogged about Martha just a little over a month ago, but as I read the story again I felt a little sad for the reputation she has.  We only read about her in three chapters in the Bible, such a small piece of her life...

What if we were only known by a chapter or two of our lives?  The days we've been unkind and impatient would lead people to believe we were always that way.  What if the days we laughed and gave joyfully of our time were forgotten?  How many times did Martha serve Jesus in her home with joy, but we only read of the time she complained?  He wouldn't have kept coming back if He felt unwelcome.

At Mom's funeral, Elder Morton told several stories.  But the phrase he used that best described her was, "She was a saint, not an angel."  At the end of the day, that's what we all need to strive for.  There might be chapters that we'd like to forget or erase, but we can strive to have many more "saintly" chapters than not.

Thursday, April 10, 2014

Martha, Martha

Happy 100th day of the year!  Time is flying as usual.  I'm happy to report that I am still on track with my Bible reading.  I'm working my way through Luke now and the story of Martha has been on my mind for several days.
Luke 10:38 Now it came to pass, as they went, that he entered into a certain village: and a certain woman named Martha received him into her house.
39 And she had a sister called Mary, which also sat at Jesus' feet, and heard his word.
40 But Martha was cumbered about much serving, and came to him, and said, Lord, dost thou not care that my sister hath left me to serve alone? bid her therefore that she help me.
41 And Jesus answered and said unto her, Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things:
42 But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.

I think Martha is often portrayed as the ugly older sister of the sitting-at-Jesus'-feet Mary.  We hear her in a stern voice, glaring at her lazy sister.  But I think this story is for our learning, as all others in the Bible.  If that is the case, what can we learn?

First, what do we know about Martha?  Martha was the owner of the house that Jesus visited, probably the oldest of the three siblings and possibly a widow.  She felt the responsibility of guests that came through the door.  Jesus loved her (John 11:5) - in fact Martha is named in that verse while Mary is not.

What happened on this particular day?  Jesus came to Martha's house, with his followers.  We don't know if that was just the 12 or a large multitude.  We don't know how much warning Martha had.  Did the little boy down the street coming running to her house, "Martha, Martha, Jesus is on His way!"  Perhaps she received word 30 minutes prior to their arrival, but probably no more than that.  Jesus did not have a home, He relied on the kindness of His friends to provide food and a place to sleep.  Surely He was hungry when He arrived and would appreciate a good meal, right?

After reading a number of commentaries, the problem wasn't in Martha wanting to serve food.  It was the amount and variety.  A simple meal would have been sufficient, but it is thought that Martha prepared numerous meats and side dishes.  She was for much serving; plenty, variety, and exactness.  If we look a little more closely at the punctuation of verses 41 and 42, it could have easily have said, "thou art careful and troubled about many things: but one thing is needful."   One simple dish would have satisfied the hungry group and Martha could have rested at Jesus' feet as well.

So ladies, what can we do?  I know I love to prepare a beautiful meal for company.  I want things just so.  The dishes, the table cloth, the food.  But we can never exchange serving for loving.  Pare down the menu so you can be present with your guests.  Check your stress meter - are you in the red zone, ready to chew out the person who isn't helping because you are going so overboard you can't be helped?  Will your guests enjoy their time with you more if you pulled something out of a crock-pot that required little work or that six course meal you've spent three days working on?  If you're so exhausted you want to cry and your guests think they should probably head for the nearest exit, was it really worth it?

After studying and thinking about Martha, I really think she had a good heart.  After the death of Lazarus, it was Martha who first went to Jesus.  I re-read that story, without the stern voice, and found Martha to be a true believer.  Twice she says, "I know" and once she says "I believe."  This is not a woman only concerned with food.  I think Martha was a great help in the early church.  She knew who Jesus was and she knew how to get things done.  I also think that she got her priorities straight and we present day Marthas can do the same.

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Surely the Presence

We started our fourth week of revival last night with a beautiful move of the Spirit of God.  Bro. Brown preached from Genesis chapter 28.  Jacob is on the run from Esau.  He stops for the night and falls asleep.  It is there that he has a dream of a ladder to heaven with angels ascending and descending upon it.  Verse 16 says, "And Jacob awaked out of his sleep, and he said, Surely the LORD is in this place; and I knew it not."  Bro. Brown talked to us about missing the presence of the Lord when He is trying to move in a service.

As I was praying towards the end of the service, I thought of something that was said in Sis. Ballestero's funeral.  I think it was one of her daughters who said, "She had a Martha and a Mary spirit.  She could cook and serve like none other, but she always took time to sit at Jesus' feet."  I felt convicted of being out of balance ~ way too much Martha-ing and not enough sitting at His feet.

If you're involved in your church like I am, it's easy for the serving side to get out of balance.  There is always work to be done ~ Always!  There are services to play for, choirs to direct, classes to teach, bathrooms to clean, souls to pray with.  But I found myself guilty last night of missing His presence in recent services.  I've prayed, but mostly with others.  And that's not wrong, but I can't help anyone if I am running on empty.

I woke up singing this morning.  My spirit was refreshed.  I had to go to the piano and play this old song.
THERE'S A SWEET, SWEET SPIRIT
There’s a sweet, sweet Spirit in this place
And I know that it’s the presence of the Lord.
There are sweet expressions on each face.
And I know they feel the presence of the Lord.
Sweet holy Spirit, sweet heavenly Dove
Stay right here with us, filling us with Your love.
And for these blessings, we lift our hearts in praise.
Without a doubt we’ll know that we have been revived
when we shall leave this place. 
I never want to leave a service saying, "Surely the LORD was in this place; and I knew it not."

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