Friday, December 1, 2017

Christmas Comes to Our House


Come on in, y'all!



The entryway...





Our Christmas card wreath just waiting to be filled...


The living room is filled with a variety of items, but front and center is the nativity.  No matter what else is put out, this comes out every year.


Christmas villages on two half walls...







And a lighthouse on the trunk...


There are carolers on the mantel...



And a few more with their piano player on the stereo...


There are three tall wise men on the dining room table.


And even some pretty dishes in the china cabinet.


The kitchen is filled with gingerbread men and women!


Including a village on the shelf by the sink.





I even brought out my Christmas dishes this year...


Snowmen, snowmen, snowmen in the family room!





Now let's head up the stairs...


Halfway up, on the landing, is another village but this one is a little different - it's Bethlehem!  I love this one.  I created "mountains" out of thin cork...




The mantel in the master bedroom.


And a giant angel in the guestroom.  She lights up the night!


One final look at the living room from upstairs.


Have you decorated yet?  Whole house or just the living room?

P.S.  I haven't bought any new decorations in years and many of these items were gifts.  It takes a long time to get a Christmas house ;)

Wednesday, November 29, 2017

November in a Nutshell


November flew by!  Les was home from McBRAAM less than a week when we flew to Hawaii. 


I got in some good running.



Got hugs from one of my favorite little people...


We came home the Friday before Thanksgiving.


Les and I decided to spend Thanksgiving alone this year.  This was our 29th Thanksgiving together (Les spent Thanksgiving 1989 with my family - we'd only been dating a couple months at that time) and only the third time we did not spend it with one of our families.  We decided to go to Carmel.  We had our Thanksgiving dinner at the Madonna Inn and it was incredible!  I ordered the turkey dinner and Les got the ham so we could have some of both.



We spent Black Friday on our bikes!  We rode 25 miles, most of it on 17 Mile Drive.




There are a lot of beautiful places in this world, but the central California coast is one of my favorites!  I have so many memories from my childhood - it was our escape the crazy summer heat of Fresno go to spot.



We ate at La Bicyclette on Saturday. 


And now it's Christmas time at our house!  I spent seven hours decorating yesterday.  I haven't gone all out in about six years, but this year I put everything out.   Pictures coming soon!

Monday, October 30, 2017

The Last Two Days of McBRAAM


I flew to Atlanta last Wednesday to be reunited with my cycling husband!  Twenty six days apart is the longest we have ever gone in our marriage.  To say that I missed him would be a gross understatement, but I'm so glad that Les, Lance, and Pops had this amazing trip of a lifetime together!

It was dinner time by the time I made it to Perry, Georgia.  I made a quick stop at the hotel then met them at Rusty's in the middle of their dinner.  I spent Thursday and Friday playing SAG - Support and Gear - with Mr. SAGMan.  Here's a sampling of how the days played out:

6:00-6:30 a.m. - Up and at 'em! (this hurt, because it was 3:00 a.m. California time.) 
Breakfast time at the hotel.  Les and Lance fueled up with oatmeal, waffles, eggs, coffee, juice, milk, yogurt and fruit.  SAGMan headed to the ice machine to fill the ice chest that had accompanied them on the journey.  Water bottles were filled and the van was reloaded.


7:00 a.m - Final pre-ride check-in.
Short devotion and prayer led by SAGMan.  This was an important part of each day.  It lasted about five minutes, but each day the three of them focused on thanks for safety so far and continued safety for that day.


7:30 a.m. - Roll out!
Les and Lance would start riding.  SAGMan would drive 15-20 miles down the road to a predetermined location.  I followed in my rental car on Thursday and led the way on Friday.  We would ride and wait, ride and wait.  Surprisingly, we really didn't wait that long.  We all have Life360 on our phones - Les' phone was in the SAGWagon, Lance had his phone in his jersey and I had mine with me.  I had watched their progress from afar for 26 stages and it was cool to see them so close.  Les and Lance would get more water for their water bottles, eat a snack, take off jackets, tell us our next stop, and roll out again.


2:00 - Final check-in
When the guys had about 15 miles of riding left they would have one final check-in with Pops.  At that point Pops would head to the chosen hotel for the night (typically Days Inn or something similar.)  He would get checked in and bring in the bags they would all need for the evening/next day.


3:00-4:00 p.m. - Roll in
As soon as the guys got to the hotel they would do three things:  start re-fueling, shower, and upload their data.

5:30 p.m. - Dinner
Les was very consistent with what he ate most nights - chicken, pasta, pizza.  They stayed away from fried foods and heavy meat.  They needed a good balance of protein to recover and carbs to fuel the next day.

7:30 p.m. - Nightly Prep
Bikes were checked, tires pumped, water bottles cleaned.  Les would write his nightly blog.  Bedtime snack.

9:30-10:00 p.m. - Lights Out

They did this for 28 days.  Some days the miles were longer than others, but they rode every single day for 28 days.  Remarkably, they didn't have any mechanical issues and they didn't get rained on a single time!


Friday afternoon was so exciting.  Les and I had plans to stay on Tybee Island for a couple of nights while Lance and Pops were going to drive back to Cookeville, Tennessee.  I checked in to the Admiral's Inn, then Pops and I wandered around waiting for the triumphant entry.  I'll write a separate post about Tybee Island - it's a cool place!


Right about 3:00 p.m. on Friday, October 27th, Les and Lance made their final left turn from Butler Avenue on to 16th Street.  They rode the Strand Avenue traffic circle where Pops and I had a small group waiting.  (I attracted a bit of attention standing on a bench, hollering, with two phones in my hand - one for pictures and one for video!)


Les took his shoes and socks off and walked right on to the beach and into the ocean carrying his bike!  It was such a cool moment - I am SO glad I was there!  So much happiness with these three.


After several more minutes of savoring the accomplishment we headed to the hotel.  Lance took a quick shower and Les unloaded his things from the van.  We borrowed one of Pops' suitcases to bring home with us - Les had put some supplies in the rental van in boxes and we needed a way to get things home.


The final moments before Lance and Pops drove away were so sweet.  We stood by the van and gave thanks to God for such an amazing journey.  I listened as these three men shared final words after 28 days of constant contact.  It's pretty cool when you love your family as much as these three do.

Saturday, October 28, 2017

Writing Prompts October 29-31

October 29 - First
Tell us about your first day at something — your first day of school, first day of work, first day living on your own, first day blogging, first day as a parent, whatever.

October 30 - Free to be me
What’s the character trait you admire the most about yourself?

October 31 - Halloweeny!
If bloggers had their own Halloween and could go from blog to blog collecting “treats,” what would your blog hand out?

Tuesday, October 24, 2017

Release Me

Tell us about the blog post you were most nervous to publish — and what it was like to set it free.

I've had a few posts that I was nervous about publishing.  The funny thing is, those were posts that I got a lot of positive feedback on.   I've received negative comments through the years, but they've usually been on posts that I hadn't given a second thought to when I published them.  The internet is a strange place sometimes!

Here are the top posts that I was most nervous about publishing:

UNCLE - My very first post
I was pretty nervous about joining the blogging world but I'm so glad I did!  I really enjoy writing (usually) and I have met some great people through this little place on the world wide web.  I love it when I get a comment from a far away friend.  (Hey you? Yes, you, reading right now?  Leave a comment some time!  Just say Hi!)

Peace that Passes Understanding
This was the post I wrote after our house was broken into while I was in it.   I was still struggling with fear (honestly, pretty much a basket case!) and I didn't want to dwell on it.  I know that fear can feed fear and I didn't want friends/family to freak out and cause me to freak out even more.

A New Adventure!
This was the post I wrote when I made my blog private and announced Les' job change.  We were already in Hawaii at the time, although I had worked on that post for several weeks.  Up to that point the only people who knew about our situation was our families and Pastor and Sister White.  Things had been up in the air for months but I had not written about it at all on my blog.  I was nervous about writing this because I was nervous about the big change that was taking place in our lives!

My Hero
I had been blogging for several months before I wrote my first post about my brother, Rod.  He was so special to me and it was hard to put into words just how much he meant to me.  I was completely overwhelmed by the many comments I received on that post.  I'm not the only one who loved and misses him!

All in all I prefer to keep my blog positive, not because I want to avoid mean comments, I just want to encourage people or make them think or smile when they read here.  So if you need a laugh today, please read Great Car for Sale, Yo!  It's about our experience with buying a car from Craigslist on Oahu.

Sunday, October 22, 2017

Remarkable

Les and Lance have now pedaled their way into their eighth of nine states!  They crossed the Mississippi/Alabama border this morning and are nearing the 2300 mile mark.  They have had an amazing trip and if all continues as planned they will reach Savannah, Georgia and the Atlantic Ocean this Friday!!

But let me tell you about someone else who is remarkable - my neighbor, Joe.  I introduced him on this blog over eight years ago.  He is one of many smiling faces I see on a regular basis when I'm out running or riding my bike.  Joe is an avid hiker and always has a smile for me.

About a month ago Les and I saw Joe while we were on a bike ride.  It was just a quick, "Good morning!" but I told Les, "Joe didn't seem himself."  Les wondered how I could tell in such a short greeting, but I just knew.

Fast forward to this morning while I was out for a run.  I saw Joe up ahead and determined to catch him.  I slowed to a walked when I caught him.  Our conversation started off like this:

Me:  How are you, Joe?
Joe:  I'm great!
Me:  You didn't seem yourself when I saw you a few weeks ago, are you okay?
Joe:  Well, I had my toes cut off...

To make a long story short, due to poor circulation, Joe's feet were not getting adequate blood supply.  In June he had the toes of his right foot removed and in July had the same procedure done on his left foot.  He is now walking on stumps.  He said he was in a lot of pain prior to the surgery but has had none since.  The main thing that has changed is the length of his stride, but his sunny outlook hasn't changed a bit.

I asked Joe if he had been able to resume hiking.  "I wanted to hike a certain mountain on my 80th birthday and I did just that on Wednesday!"  I am so in awe of this man!  80 years young, walking three miles, 5 days a week and in his words, "working at the Senior center to help those less fortunate," the other two days!

Joe reached his turn around point and we said goodbye for the day.  I finished my run with a huge smile on my face!  What an inspiration!

Saturday, October 21, 2017

Writing Prompts October 22-28

October 22 - Sad but true
Tell us about the harshest, most difficult to hear — but accurate — criticism you’ve ever gotten. Does it still apply?

October 23 - As seen on T.V.
Write a script for a late-night infomercial — where the product is your blog. How do you market yourself? What qualities do you embody that other “products” don’t? What are the benefits of reading your blog?

October 24 - Express yourself
Tell us about a time you couldn’t quite get your words or images to express what you wanted to express. What do you think the barrier was? For bonus points, try again.

October 25 - Simply the best
NASA is building a new Voyager spacecraft that will carry the best of modern human culture. What belongs onboard?

October 26 - Breakdown
Tell us about a habit you’d like to break. Is there any way it can play a positive role in your life?

October 27 - The golden hour
6:00AM: the best hour of the day, or too close to your 3:00AM bedtime?

October 28 - Seven wonders
Khalil Gibran once said that people will never understand one another unless language is reduced to seven words. What would your seven words be?

Monday, October 16, 2017

Sooner Flashback

Les and Lance pedaled in to Oklahoma last Thursday.  When we were talking on the phone that night Les said something like, "I was gonna use Sooner in my post title, but I don't really know what that is."  Instantly I was back in fifth grade...

My teacher at Del Mar Elementary school in the fifth grade was Miss Shambley.  She was a good teacher, fair and funny, but her favorite subject was history.  She loved teaching American history!  We probably spent more than the normal amount of time studying this subject, but she really made it fun.

Each student in our class was required to choose a state to do a report on.  We had to choose the state and then tell why we had chosen to study it before we were given approval to move forward on that state.  My Mom's mom, Grandma Luella, was born in Oklahoma, so that is the state I chose to study.


As soon as Les said, "I don't know what a Sooner is..."  I had all the answers!  I immediately started telling him about the land rush that occurred.  Two million acres of prime Oklahoma land were opened up to settlers in 1889.  Settlers could claim up to 160 acres and as long as they lived on the land they could claim it as theirs.  (Side note: I'm not advocating the way this land was stolen from American Indians, just reporting on history.)


High noon on April 22, 1889, was when the area was opened for settlement.  There were people who entered the land early and hid until the legal time - they were then able to settle on choice land before others got there.  Those people were called Sooners, because there was a "sooner clause" in the land act, stating that anyone entering early would not be able to claim any land.  This was cause for much litigation through the years.


So if you ever wondered why I spend time blogging about the historical significance of places we've visited around the world - it's all because of my fifth grade teacher.  Of course my studying would have been much easier today with the internet!

Did you have a teacher that made you love (or hate) a certain subject in school?

Saturday, October 14, 2017

Writing Prompts October 15-21

October 15 - Childlike
Explain your biggest regret — as though to a small child.

October 16 - Honorific
October 16th is officially declared “Person X Day” — and you get to pick Person X. Tell us about someone who deserves to be commemorated.

October 17 - Community service
Your entire community — however you define that; your hometown, your neighborhood, your family, your colleagues — is guaranteed to read your blog tomorrow. Write the post you’d like them all to see.

October 18 - Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious
You get some incredibly, amazingly, wonderfully fantastic news. What’s the first thing you do?

October 19 - Home sweet home
When you’re away from home, what person, thing, or place do you miss the most?

October 20 - Release me
Tell us about the blog post you were most nervous to publish — and what it was like to set it free.

October 21 - Blank is the new blank
Click over to your favorite blog, and pick out the 4th and 14th words (that aren’t “the” or “an”). Drop them into this phrase: “_____ is the new _____.” There’s your post title. Now write!

Friday, October 13, 2017

Pastor Appreciation ~ Grandpa and Grandma McElhaney


I decided to finish my Pastor Appreciation Week with a post about Grandpa and Grandma McElhaney. When they received the revelation of this marvelous truth, they embraced it and passed it on. They left a great heritage to many generations.

In the fall of 1933 Grandpa and Grandma first came into contact with the Apostolic message. Grandpa was the first to be baptized in Jesus' name, while Grandma resisted. Finally, one cold night, the winter of 1935, she jumped up at the end of the service and said she wanted to be baptized. There was two feet of snow on the ground. It was so cold and ice in the tank had to be broken to baptize her. She had brought no change of clothing and had to walk almost two miles home in her wet clothes. By the time she got home her clothing was frozen on her. Shortly after that she received the Holy Ghost and the following summer, Grandpa received the Holy Ghost at home.

Grandpa founded a church in New Castle, Indiana in 1936 and pastored from 1936-1950. There is still a Jesus name church in that city today! Pictured below is the congregation in about 1945. Grandpa had a weekly radio broadcast and held street meetings on Saturday nights.


Both of Les' grandparents were licensed Pentecostal ministers before the formation of the United Pentecostal Church International in 1945. The organization was created by the merger of the Pentecostal Church Incorporated and the Pentecostal Assemblies of Jesus Christ. Grandma Marie belonged to one of the organizations and Grandpa Earl belonged to the other!

Grandpa died in 1989, the same year Les and I met, so I was not privileged to know him. I met Grandma Marie on a couple of occasions and although her body was failing, her mind was still sharp and she loved being surrounded by her family. At her funeral, her grandson Allen told quite a story. Grandma was part of the church when Allen became the pastor in Panama City, FL. From that time forward, she always addressed him as Bro. Crabtree, showing respect to his role as her pastor.

Grandpa and Grandma moved to Panama City, Florida in 1950. They returned to Indiana for about a year in 1953, then pastored in Florida until his retirement in 1972. A large, loud, loving extended family gathers in Florida each Thanksgiving. Descendants of Earl and Marie McElhaney, many involved in the ministry and still loving the truth that these two embraced so long ago.

Thursday, October 12, 2017

McBRAAM Week 2... Meanwhile on the Home Front

Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta
 Les and Lance continue to make their way across the country.  They will finish today's ride in Oklahoma!  This will be the fifth state and they should cross the 1400 mile mark, which will put them approximately half way.  They've had a few tough days this week with a lot of wind but I can tell they are having the time of their lives!  If you're not reading their blog, you are missing out!  Go HERE.


It's not all just pedaling and eating.  There's a lot of laundry going on!


Meanwhile, on the home front...

We had Santa Ana winds on Monday that knocked one of our trees down.  We knew it wasn't healthy and needed to come down, the wind just gave it a little help.  I have a tree removal company coming today and they'll be taking a second tree down as well.  The years of California drought were tough on our trees.


I noticed on Tuesday that the water coming out of the faucet wasn't as hot as usual.  I couldn't get any hot water yesterday.  I wasn't sure what to do, so Google to the rescue!  "How to Re-light a Water Heater Pilot Light..."  A few posts later, I found a very helpful video that showed the exact same dials that are on our water heater.  Five minutes later the pilot light was back on and I got a hot shower yesterday afternoon!

Les gave me this mug when we were dating!  It's been getting a lot of use while he's been gone.

The David Abbott family is going to be in church with us for the next couple of weeks while Pastor and Sister White are in the Philippines.  Last night Bro. Abbott said most people don't say "I love you" very much.  I kinda had to chuckle, because if he could see the texts between Les and I, he would know we are not most people!   I am so glad he is having a great time, but I am really missing him.  I guess these little blips on the home front are keeping me a little busier to help the time pass more quickly.  Looking forward to being reunited soon!


Pastor Appreciation ~ Pastor Richard McGriffin


My acquaintance with Pastor McGriffin (AKA Pastor Mac) is the most recent.  January 2013 found us moving "temporarily" to Hawaii.  What we thought would be a six month stay has turned in to almost five years of part time Hawaiian living.   As I mentioned on Sunday, with Pastor White's assistance we found New Life Pentecostal and Pastor and Sis. Mac.

I realized never shared about how Les first "met" Pastor Mac via telephone.  Pastor White had called and talked to Pastor Mac, then told Les to give him a call.  It was the Monday night before we would go to Hawaii on Friday in January 2013.  Les called Pastor Mac and after a brief greeting, Pastor Mac said he would need to call Les back.  Les could hear a lot of noise in the background and thought he must have been in a restaurant.  A few minutes later Les' phone rang.  On the other end a voice said, "Is this Les McElhaney?  Do you know who this is?"  To make a long story short, it was Pastor Ron Becton from Nashville, Tennessee.  Bro. and Sis. Becton (Les' former youth leader) were in Hawaii for a marriage retreat and were having dinner with the McGriffins that night!  Bro. Becton's confidence in, and friendship with, Pastor Mac was that final piece of peace we needed.

Pastor Mac faces some unique challenges in pastoring in Hawaii.  Many people are only there for vacation, they aren't interested in putting down roots and investing in a church.  Many people who live there are in the military, which means they move after just a few years.  We've seen a lot of people come and go in these past five years.  It can't be easy pastoring sheep who don't stay in the same pasture for long, but Pastor Mac loves everyone who comes to NLP, no matter how long or how short their stay.  He teaches and preaches with the same passion no matter how many are missing.

We don't go hungry spiritually when we are in Hawaii.  I am so thankful that this couple is in our lives.  We're blessed to know them!

Wednesday, October 11, 2017

Pastor Appreciation ~ Pastor Philip White


I knew of Bro. White long before he became my pastor. He was the Youth President in the Western District and I had heard him preach at various camps and conferences. He also preached a revival in Fresno before he pastored in Burbank.

During my early twenties as I waited for God to bring Mr. Right into my life, I started praying not only for my future husband, but for his pastor as well. I changed my list of things I wanted in a man to include "must belong to a good church" and even included a list of pastors that I felt I would be safe in their churches. When I met Les, and saw a future with him, I knew I was going to be in safe hands with Pastor White as my pastor - he was one of the pastors on my "list!"

When Les and I were going to buy our first house (we lived in a townhouse for almost 10 years), things were moving very quickly. On a Thursday in January 2001, we set up an appointment to meet with Pastor White for his counsel. The appointment was for the following Monday. From Thursday to Monday, our offer on the house had been accepted, and we had an offer on our townhouse. Well that was kinda scary to us. But Pastor White gave us wisdom that I will never forget. He said, "sometimes when God is in it, He makes things move very quickly." His assurance brought peace to my troubled mind.

For over 26 years, I have been pastored by Pastor White and I truly love, admire, and respect him. His wisdom is amazing, his preaching anointed, and his burden for the work of God far reaching. Pastor and Sister White have been there for us through funerals and surgeries, but they have also rejoiced in our times of blessing. They are great people of God.

Tuesday, October 10, 2017

Pastor Appreciation ~ Pastor Vaughn Morton


Bro. Morton became the pastor of Truth Tabernacle in November, 1972. I was 8 1/2 years old and still on the shy side. He says I didn't speak to him for the first 5 years he was pastor! While I don't know for sure, I wouldn't be surprised if that wasn't pretty close the truth.

I remember many times when Bro. Morton would come to our home to pray for Rod. It didn't matter, night or day, if Mom called, he came. I also remember when Rod broke his femur and was in a body cast. Naturally, everyone who came to visit signed his cast. Not Bro. Morton! He signed Rod's leg - "just to make sure your momma's washing you!"

Memories too numerous to recount come to mind, but my world changed completely when Bro. Morton asked me to work in the church office. I was a junior in high school, attending Truth Tabernacle Christian School in its first year of existence. I started working part time in the afternoons instead of taking electives, then worked full time in the summer. I had no idea I would end up working there for ten years. How can I even describe the impact those years made in my life? His constant encouragement and kind words when I did something right helped me come out of my shy shell. What fun I had WORKING! The many times he would jump from around some corner ("only the guilty jump"), the notes on my calendar, the smiley faces in red ink, on and on those memories go.

There were words of wisdom and encouragement when I was down. One particular day comes to mind - I had just walked into the church lobby from the Christian school and Bro. Morton met me there. He took me inside the sanctuary and told me he was proud of me, among many other things. He always seemed to know what I needed to hear. Another day he gave me a scripture that became a promise, "sit still, my daughter, until thou know how the matter will fall" (Ruth 3:18).

I'm so thankful that Elder Morton is still in my life, he is very dear to my heart, and I love him so much. I called him last week after I received his book.  He is no longer pastoring, but he is as busy as ever being a blessing to the kingdom of God everywhere he goes.

Monday, October 9, 2017

Pastor Appreciation ~ Pastor Murray Layne


Bro. Layne was Mom's pastor at the time of my birth.  It was Bro. Layne who grounded Mom in the truth. I naturally don't remember any of those details, but I do remember being a child and being very aware of Bro. Layne as the man of God in our church. It was during his 19 years of dedication and service that many decisions were made that put Truth Tabernacle on a sure path. Truth was preached, property was purchased, buildings were built, a bus ministry was started, and a great revival of "hippies" took place under his leadership.

I remember services in what is now the school cafeteria at Truth Tabernacle. We had hard benches and no carpet on the floor, but God moved in mighty ways. Bro. Layne baptized me in the old baptistry in the back of that building on January 11, 1971. I can picture that night as if it happened yesterday. What a privilege to be baptized in the lovely name of Jesus by my pastor!

I also remember building the "big church", which is now the prayer room/school chapel. I can still see that day when we broke ground out on the corner of First and Holland. What an exciting time of anticipation!

I'll also never forget when Bro. Layne announced to the church that God was calling him to another city. I was only eight years old at the time and didn't fully understand the implications, but I remember Mom saying, "How will I ever love another pastor like I love Bro. Layne and his family?" Thankfully God had just the right person in mind to pastor Truth Tabernacle, but the Layne family has always held a special place in my heart.

I remember seeing Bro. and Sis. Layne through the years, and as I got older they just grew dearer and dearer to me. They have both gone on to be with the Lord now, but I look forward to the day when we meet again in front of the throne.

Sunday, October 8, 2017

Pastor Appreciation Week

I posted the writing prompts for this week but won't be using any of them. October is Clergy Appreciation month and I want to spend this week giving honor where honor is due.  I have had four pastors in my lifetime - Pastor Murray Layne, Pastor Vaughn Morton, Pastor Philip White, and Pastor Richard McGriffin.  They have each impacted my life in tremendous ways.

I often hear people say, "My pastor is the greatest!"  I don't use that phrase because I have had more than one pastor.  I don't rank them, choosing one as greater than another.  Just like a parent shouldn't play favorites, I don't have a favorite pastor.  They ALL mean a great deal to me.  They have been with me through different parts of my life.

We have been in a unique situation for almost five years now.  We spend a lot of our time in Hawaii because of Les' job.  Last year we were on the island for six weeks straight, two different times.  We need a pastor in our lives where we are, so when we are in Hawaii we put ourselves under the authority of Pastor McGriffin.  We trusted Pastor White to guide us in choosing a church on Oahu and we trust Pastor McGriffin to take care of us spiritually while we are there.  We feel very blessed to have both these men in our life.

Jeremiah 3:15 says, "And I will give you pastors according to mine heart, which shall feed you with knowledge and understanding."  I am thankful for the pastors that God has given me.  Les and I are now in our 50s, both Pastor White and Pastor McGriffin are in their 60s.  I realize that my next pastor will most likely be younger than me.  When that day comes, I will trust God to give me the right man for the job, and I will respect that man no matter his age.

The best way to show appreciation to your pastor? Be the Best Saint Your Pastor Has Ever Pastored! Make his job easy!

How do we make our pastors' jobs easier? Stand with him. Pray for him. Support him financially. Grow in God. Have a personal prayer life. Read the Word. Be on time for church. Be on time for pre-service prayer and pray when you get there. Fight the fiery darts of the wicked. Fight the flames of gossip, rebellion, disobedience, and discontent. When you go to him for counsel - do what he says. Give your pastor time to rest. Time to study. Time to spend with new babes. The list could go on and on, but you get the idea!  Be the Best Saint Your Pastor Has Ever Pastored!  And not just in October!

Saturday, October 7, 2017

Writing Prompts October 8-14

October 8 - Bloggers, unplugged
Sometimes, we all need a break from these little glowing boxes. How do you know when it’s time to unplug? What do you do to make it happen?

October 9 - Can’t get enough
Have you ever been addicted to anything, or worried that you were? Have you ever spent too much time and effort on something that was a distraction from your real goals? Tell us about it.

October 10 - Fright night
Do you like being scared by books, films, and surprises? Describe the sensation of being scared, and why you love it — or don’t.

October 11 - Mid-season replacement
For many of us the seasons are changing, bouncing unpredictably between cold and warm. Are you glad to be moving into a new season, or wishing for one more week of the old?

October 12 - Blogger in a strange land
What’s the strangest place from which you’ve posted to your blog? When was the last time you were out and about, and suddenly thought, “I need to write about this!”?

October 13 - Michelangelo’s YOU
Your personal sculptor is carving a person, thing, or event from the last month of your life into the glistening marble of immortality. What’s the statue and what makes it so significant?

October 14 - Imitation / flattery
Write a post in the style of (or simply inspired by) a favorite author.

Thursday, October 5, 2017

Exhale

Tell us about a time when everything seemed to be going wrong — and then, suddenly, you knew it would be all right.

Five years ago this month Les suddenly became unemployed.  He was out of work for a total of three months and during that time the only company that showed any interest was his current employer, based in Honolulu.   My Dad was in and out of the hospital during that time and our house was broken into while we were visiting him in San Francisco.  (You can read the entire store here.)

I'm sure most people would think, "A job in Hawaii? what could be wrong with that?"  But for me it was scary.  We had been to Hawaii many times for vacation, but I always thought, "It's a nice place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there."  I especially thought that of Oahu, more specifically Honolulu.  Exactly where we would be going.

There was a great deal of fear on my part.  Move, even temporarily, away from California?  Leave our home church?  Walk into a brand new life, not knowing a single person when we got there?  I was so unsure.

The uncertainty lasted for almost three months.  During that time we prayed and prayed.  Les talked to Pastor White many, many times.  My most common prayer was, "God, it's kinda cool thinking about Hawaii, but we're really just waiting for you to open the right door, here. I'm sure that's what you want for us."  One day I heard the song, "God is God" by Steven Curtis Chapman.  The next time I told God, "I know you want us to stay here," I felt God say, "Hawaii is where I want you."  I can't tell you how strong I felt it, tears came to my eyes and peace came to my heart.  While I could not see the entire picture God was painting, I handed him the brush I'd been holding and knew everything was going to be all right!

Nearly five years later, I am so thankful for the times we have spent in Hawaii.  Oahu is so much more than Honolulu and Waikiki.  When you get away from the busy tourist areas, it is one of the most beautiful places in the world, with some of the kindest people.  We have gained an entire church family that we love.  I was taken completely out of my comfort zone, but I know I have grown in areas that I didn't even know I needed to grow.  I'm so glad that God is God, and I am not!

God is God

And the pain falls like a curtain
On the things I once called certain
And I have to say the words I fear the most
I just don't know

And the questions without answers
Come and paralyze the dancer
So I stand here on the stage afraid to move
Afraid to fall, oh, but fall I must
On this truth that my life has been formed from the dust

[Chorus]
God is God and I am not
I can only see a part of the picture He's painting
God is God and I am man
So I'll never understand it all
For only God is God

And the sky begins to thunder
And I'm filled with awe and wonder
'Til the only burning question that remains
Is who am I

Can I form a single mountain
Take the stars in hand and count them
Can I even take a breath without God giving it to me
He is first and last before all that has been
Beyond all that will pass

[Chorus]
God is God and I am not
I can only see a part of the picture He's painting
God is God and I am man
So I'll never understand it all
For only God is God

Oh, how great are the riches of His wisdom and knowledge
How unsearchable for to Him and through Him and from Him are all things

So let us worship before the throne
Of the One who is worthy of worship alone

[Chorus]
God is God and I am not
I can only see a part of the picture He's painting
God is God and I am man
So I'll never understand it all
For only God is God

Monday, October 2, 2017

Reading Material

How do you pick what blogs or books to read? What’s the one thing that will get you to pick up a book or click on a link every single time?


I have always enjoyed reading, but I am careful about what I read. On a day like today, when every news headline is screaming about the terror that occurred in Las Vegas last night, it's hard to read the details.  I want to stay informed about our world, but some days are harder to read about than others.


When it comes to books and blogs, I want them to pass the Philippians 4:8 test:  "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."   I've chosen not to read some books or blogs, some after just a paragraph, because I want my mind to be filled with good things.


I had a pleasant surprise this afternoon when I walked out to the mailbox.  New reading material!  I know I will enjoy every single page because I know the author:


This brought a huge smile to my face on a day that had felt very heavy.


I feel privileged to be on the mailing list for this book.  I assume that if you are at West Coast Conference in Fresno next month these will be available for purchase.  I have only read the back cover, but I know it will be worth purchasing!

Sunday, October 1, 2017

October Writing Prompts

Can you believe we are in the final quarter of 2017?  This is always the busiest time for most of us. Personally our calendar is filling up quickly but I still want to keep blogging.  I may not need as many prompts since I prefer writing about what's happening, but for those quiet days here are the prompts for this month.

October 1 - Fearful symmetry
Pick a letter, any letter. Now, write a story, poem, or post in which every line starts with that letter.

October 2 - Reading material
How do you pick what blogs or books to read? What’s the  one thing that will get you to pick up a book or click on a link every single time?

October 3 - New internet order
All the world’s countries have decided that the Internet itself needs a government. Your country asks you to run for Prime Minister of the ‘Net — do you accept? If so, what will your platform be?

October 4 - The clothes that (may) make the (wo)man
How important are clothes to you? Describe your style, if you have one, and tell us how appearance impacts how you feel about yourself.

October 5 - Eye of the beholder
Describe what it feels like to hear a beautiful piece of music or see a stunning piece of art.

October 6 - Mixtape masterpiece
You make a new friend. Make them a mix tape (or playlist, for the younger folks) that tells them who you are through song.

October 7 - Exhale
Tell us about a time when everything seemed to be going wrong — and then, suddenly, you knew it would be alright.

October 8 - Bloggers, unplugged
Sometimes, we all need a break from these little glowing boxes. How do you know when it’s time to unplug? What do you do to make it happen?

October 9 - Can’t get enough
Have you ever been addicted to anything, or worried that you were? Have you ever spent too much time and effort on something that was a distraction from your real goals? Tell us about it.

October 10 - Fright night
Do you like being scared by books, films, and surprises? Describe the sensation of being scared, and why you love it — or don’t.

October 11 - Mid-season replacement
For many of us the seasons are changing, bouncing unpredictably between cold and warm. Are you glad to be moving into a new season, or wishing for one more week of the old?

October 12 - Blogger in a strange land
What’s the strangest place from which you’ve posted to your blog? When was the last time you were out and about, and suddenly thought, “I need to write about this!”?

October 13 - Michelangelo’s YOU
Your personal sculptor is carving a person, thing, or event from the last month of your life into the glistening marble of immortality. What’s the statue and what makes it so significant?

October 14 - Imitation / flattery
Write a post in the style of (or simply inspired by) a favorite author.

October 15 - Childlike
Explain your biggest regret — as though to a small child.

October 16 - Honorific
October 16th is officially declared “Person X Day” — and you get to pick Person X. Tell us about someone who deserves to be commemorated.

October 17 - Community service
Your entire community — however you define that; your hometown, your neighborhood, your family, your colleagues — is guaranteed to read your blog tomorrow. Write the post you’d like them all to see.

October 18 - Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious
You get some incredibly, amazingly, wonderfully fantastic news. What’s the first thing you do?

October 19 - Home sweet home
When you’re away from home, what person, thing, or place do you miss the most?

October 20 - Release me
Tell us about the blog post you were most nervous to publish — and what it was like to set it free.

October 21 - Blank is the new blank
Click over to your favorite blog, and pick out the 4th and 14th words (that aren’t “the” or “an”). Drop them into this phrase: “_____ is the new _____.” There’s your post title. Now write!

October 22 - Sad but true
Tell us about the harshest, most difficult to hear — but accurate — criticism you’ve ever gotten. Does it still apply?

October 23 - As seen on T.V.
Write a script for a late-night infomercial — where the product is your blog. How do you market yourself? What qualities do you embody that other “products” don’t? What are the benefits of reading your blog?

October 24 - Express yourself
Tell us about a time you couldn’t quite get your words or images to express what you wanted to express. What do you think the barrier was? For bonus points, try again.

October 25 - Simply the best
NASA is building a new Voyager spacecraft that will carry the best of modern human culture. What belongs onboard?

October 26 - Breakdown
Tell us about a habit you’d like to break. Is there any way it can play a positive role in your life?

October 27 - The golden hour
6:00AM: the best hour of the day, or too close to your 3:00AM bedtime?

October 28 - Seven wonders
Khalil Gibran once said that people will never understand one another unless language is reduced to seven words. What would your seven words be?

October 29 - First
Tell us about your first day at something — your first day of school, first day of work, first day living on your own, first day blogging, first day as a parent, whatever.

October 30 - Free to be me
What’s the character trait you admire the most about yourself?

October 31 - Halloweeny!
If bloggers had their own Halloween and could go from blog to blog collecting “treats,” what would your blog hand out?

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