Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Top Priority

I receive catalogs from the Vermont Country Store. Founded in 1946 by Vrest and Mildred Orton with the purpose of providing items that are "useful, work, and make sense." As I was flipping through their most recent catalog, I read their Customer Bill of Rights. #2 on the list was:
To be the top priority of the moment.
This made me think of the times when a customer service rep didn't make me the top priority of the moment. You know what I'm talking about - the lady at the airline counter who just keeps typing away, never looking up when you try to get some information. Or the cashier who is gabbing away with a co-worker, not even acknowledging your existence. I've walked in stores and not been greeted by a single person the entire time I shopped, causing me to wonder if they were interested in my money.

Have you ever visited a church that was like that? Or, God forbid, is your church like that? When a visitor comes are they greeted with a warm welcome or are you too busy making plans on where to eat after service to be bothered with them? I admit, many times I walk off the platform exhausted from playing, singing, or directing the choir. I am wrung out and all I want to do is get my purse, my Bible, and my sweetheart and go home. But the top priority is not me. I feel so much better when I step away from me and greet a visitor. I've heard many visitors comment on how friendly our church is.

It doesn't take a lot to make someone top priority of the moment. "Hello, we're so glad to have you." Make eye contact. (That means looking up from your cell phone, too.)

In Matthew chapter 25, Jesus placed great importance on the hungry, the stranger, the sick...

34 Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world:
35 For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in:
36 Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me.
37 Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink?
38 When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee?
39 Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee?
40 And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

Every visitor who comes through our doors deserves:
To be the top priority of the moment.

5 comments:

Mary Frances said...

AMEN!!! I used to never make an effort to be friendly until I went away for 5 weeks and was visiting another church in another state, I STILL remember the ONE girl that said hi to me that first night there...later on I made friends with the other youth, but I had just assumed at first they were all snobs, really they were just shy...but after that I realized what it was like and decided to make an effort!!!

Kathy McElhaney said...

Mary,
I've also visited a church that was unfriendly. I think it was good for me to feel like an outsider - I never want a visitor in our church to feel how I felt.

Mary Frances said...

Although, I have to say, whenever we have a single guy visiting, I hardly say hi! I JUST CAN'T!!! LOL I WANT TO...BUT I can't!!! But I have a friend that is VERY good at sayin hi to the guys, sooo this one time we had this new guy that was coming to our church and I REALLY wanted to meet him but I just didn't have the guts to introduce myself and be friendly, BUT my friend like had totally introduced herself to him in the morning and soooo I was tellin everyone I wanna meet that guy and like EVEN MY PASTOR was like just go introduce yourself...and i was like I CAN'T!!! Soooo FINALLY that night my friend was "Being Friendly" with him and so I just kind of went up and mingled myself into the convo, and so the guy was like, oh and what's your name and so I was like, Oh i'm Mary AND my friend was like, Oh and btw i've been talkin to you but I don't know if I introduced myself, "I'm___________ and he was like, Yeah, I know, you've told me three times. AHAHAHAHAHA! I just about feel on the ground right there on the spot laughing my head off!!! It was TOO FUNNY!!! I mean he was REALLY NICE when he said it but STILL...it was too funny!

Kathy McElhaney said...

Well... that's a different kind of visitor!! I was talking about someone that's coming to church looking for God!!!

Mary Frances said...

HAHAHA! i KNOW!!! I know I know!!! But it just made me think of that too!!

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